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  • August 30, 2018 10:12 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    One of the treasures of our Catholic faith are the numerous writings from shepherds of our past that are relatively easy to locate. Several online resources are available to re-discover these treasures. www.,,,,, catholicculture. org,, as well as many others. Most of the words that follow are taken from a homily by Saint Peter Chrysologus that is printed in the Breviary. He was a bishop in Ravenna, Italy. He was born around 380 and died around 450.

    Prayer Knocks

    “If you pray, fast; if you fast; show mercy; if you want your petition to be heard, hear the petition of others. If you do not close your ear to others you open God’s ear to yourself.


    Fasting is the soul of prayer and mercy is the lifeblood of fasting. When you fast see the fasting of others. If you want God to know that you are hungry, know that another is hungry. Let us use fasting to make up for what we have lost by despising others. When you fast, if your mercy is thin, your harvest will be thin. When you fast what you pour out in mercy overflows in your barns.


    If you hope for mercy, show mercy. If you look for kindness, show kindness. If you want to receive, give. Fasting bears no fruit, unless it is watered by mercy. Mercy is to fasting as rain is to the earth. If you ask for yourself what you deny to others, your asking is mockery. Therefore do not lose by saving, but gather in by scattering. Give to the poor and you give to yourself. You will not be allowed to keep what you have refused to give to others. “

    Let prayer, mercy and fasting be one single plea to God on our behalf…

    This threefold approach to the spiritual life is Trinitarian as well as foundational in our understanding of the three- legged stool, of Piety, Study and Action in Cursillo. I must admit, when it comes to my own self-reflection, I am stronger with prayer, not so much with fasting, my orientation to fasting has been primarily around the season of Lent. My action with mercy has mostly been around the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy. So, the invitation from St. Peter Chrysologus is to strengthen our prayer life by always including fasting and mercy. Prayer, coupled with fasting and mercy, may be our strongest intercessory. As we continue to face challenges within Cursillo, The Church and Our Country we might better heed the words of this great shepherd.

    Tim Helmeke, Retired Deacon 

  • July 29, 2018 9:06 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    How appropriate were the words consecrated, venera-ble, noble, and honorable in the time of Jesus. To be thought of as blessed and chosen by God, or the gods of the time, was a pinnacle of achievement and worthy of accolades. At the time of Jesus’ death, none of those words would have been applied to Him by those respon-sible for His death. But in light of the resurrection and in time, they all became descriptives of an early move-ment called “The Way,” that believed Jesus to be the chosen one, the Messiah, the Christ. Jesus became known as the savior, redeemer, and reconciler of a world that had lost its way.

    The world of that time, and you may say the same for now, has seemingly lost its way. In that time, those de-scriptive words were the root meaning of the word “August,” one of the two months including July named after two Roman emperors, Augustus and Julius Caesar respectively. My suggestion, in small and large ways, is that we refocus our efforts on that which is most divine, most holy, most loving; namely the guidance of the holy spirit afforded us through the model of sacrificial love that Jesus offered to us all.

    It seems at times like these that we are bombarded from all sides by public viewpoints, whether social, cultural or political, claiming that their argument is specially chosen and blessed to be the truth and nothing but the truth. The truth, we believe as Christians, starts first with Jesus, the consecrated one to be venerated with honor and nobility.

    I wish to echo into today, a part of Jesus’ exchange with Pilate from the 18th chapter of gospel of John:

    Jesus said, “My kingdom is not of this world. If it were, my servants would fight to prevent my arrest by the Jewish leaders. But now my kingdom is from another place.”

    “You are a king, then!” said Pilate.

    Jesus answered, “You say that I am a king. In fact, the reason I was born and came into the world is to testify to the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me.”

    In closing, I wish we all take more time to listen (piety), to find “the way” (study), and bring alive more fully (action), the truth in Jesus that sets us free.

    Dn Mick Humbert 

  • June 27, 2018 9:59 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    Every July 4th we pause to give thanks for our freedom, a freedom that was given to us through sacrifices of others who loved liberty more than life. These were not wild eyed, rabble-rousing ruffians. They were soft-spoken men of means and education. They had security, but they valued liberty more. Standing tall, straight, and unwavering, they pledged: “For the support of this declaration, with firm reliance on the protection of the divine providence, we mutually pledge to each other, our lives, our fortunes, and our sacred honor.” They gave you and me a free and independent America, at a great cost to themselves! Some of us take these liberties so much for granted, and we shouldn’t.

    And as we celebrate our freedom and independence on July 4th as Americans, as Catholics we also have reason to celebrate and reflect on the freedom that we share as children of God. We celebrate the freedom given to us by God and restored to us by Christ.

    For all that afflicts our culture today – ceaseless demands, unreal expectations, rare appreciation, you and I are uncommonly blessed. Not only have we been freed from sin, we have been freed for a role in the divine dream for the freedom of God’s people. Day after day we are privileged to proclaim boldly and to shape slowly God’s vision of justice; a community where everyone sees Christ in one another.

    Senator Lieberman was once quoted while commenting on Independence Day, “…there is no better way to celebrate the anniversary of America’s Independence than to remember what moved a determined band of patriots to lay down all for liberty, and then promise never to forget.

    And we must promise never to forget what moved Jesus to lay down his life so that we could be free: Free from the power of evil, free to worship without fear, free to love as Jesus loves. As Christians, we must teach the next generation about our faith so that they are not in danger of losing theirs. One generation is all it takes to either lose or pass on the faith. Think about that? One generation! We must pass on to our children and our grandchildren the power of the living Gospel, what Paul called, “…the power of God for salvation.”

    That power comes to us through the Incarnation of Jesus Christ as we remember the past – his passion, his death and his resurrection – that is operative in the present, in the Eucharist, and gives us hope for the future where we will sit at the banquet feast in the New Kingdom of God.

    It is through the imitation of the Eucharist, Christ’s love for us, that we will make this world a better place for all to live, to experience our dream as a Country and as a people, “…that all are endowed by our Creator with certain unalienable Rights,” understood as: The integrity of all life, from the womb to the tomb, with an understanding that Liberty is not just freedom from oppression, but also freedom to make this a better world for all, especially for our children and grandchildren. That is our pursuit of happiness and “true happiness” can be found only in the pursuit of God. May God bless us! May God bless America!

    Fr Al Backman 

  • May 24, 2018 9:41 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    On the heels of Pentecost where Jesus twice proclaimed “Peace be with You” as depicted by the author of John’s gospel, the heartbeat of our worship continues again with Ordinary Time. It is time to put the indwelling of the Holy Spirit theory to the test. My offering here is that while human and social tendencies have and will always gravitate toward the wants and wishes of the individual and tribe, Jesus offers “the Way,” an anti-dote for this social reality.

    I won’t spend much time on individualism, except to say we in the U.S. live in an extremely individualistic society at the all too frequent avoidance of or detriment to the common good. Tribalism however has either taken root, or in my opinion revived itself and deepened its roots across all facets of society. A tribal way of thinking is summed up in the phrase “our way or the highway;” little or no debate, circle the wagons, and defend at all cost.

    Examples (not an exhaustive list):

    Social: Pro-life/Pro-Choice , Pro-gun/Anti-gun, Prowar/anti-war, divisions along racial lines

    Economic: Capitalism/Socialism, Have/Have-nots, 1, 2 or 5% versus the remainder of society

    Political: Republican/Democrat, Conservative/Liberal, Have a voice/have no voice

    Religious: Traditionalist/Evangelical, Ritual/Scripture, One God/Secular Spirituality/No God

    If you follow the resurrection appearance of Jesus as laid out in John 20:19-23, I offer the following outline that echoes Jesus and the charism of Cursillo, and therefore serves as an anti-dote to our individualistic and tribalistic nature.

    Show up: “….(Jesus) stood in their midst” > be willing to stand in the midst of fear, pain, confusion, hatred, and longing.

    Offer up: “Peace be with you.” > acknowledge that things are not as they should or could be, and offer a close encounter with love and understanding.

    Take up: “…(Jesus) showed them his hands and his side.” > you have your own crosses and wounds to bear, and be vulnerable enough to give witness to them.

    Keep up: “Peace be with you.” > be present again, be real, and aim toward Jesus; make a friend, be a friend, and bring a friend to Christ.

    It is hard to be clueless, cynical, hateful, or dismissive when giving each other a sign of Christ’s peace.

    Dn Mick Humbert 

  • April 25, 2018 8:19 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    The Easter season is a time for the resurrection and the conversation of hearts. It’s a time to reflect on our story, and to consider in what ways we may be called by Christ to a deeper conversion of our heart…to a new story for our lives.

    We heard about one of those hearts in the Easter Sunday Gospel, where we met Mary Magdalene. This is the same Mary that three years earlier was a harlot, and she was possessed by seven demons. Until she met Christ; then her story changed forever. Healed of her afflictions, we met a woman who was one of the few courageous enough to stay with Christ during his crucifixion. On Easter Sunday we find her getting up early, in the cold darkness, intending to anoint Christ’s body, but instead she will be remembered forever as the first person to experience the empty tomb… the resurrection of the one who changed her life forever.

    And who did Mary Magdalene run to and tell, but another person whose story was changed forever. Peter, who just three years earlier was a mediocre fisherman from Galilee; until he met Christ, then his story changed forever.

    Peter’s conversion was a slow journey of healing his own demons…impatient, impulsive, cowardly…just three days earlier, after promising never to deny Christ, he denied him three times in just a few hours. Yet, through the power of the resurrection, the once impatient, impulsive and cowardly Peter became the “rock” of Christ’s bride, the Church; founded by Christ, led by Peter and his successors, and promised to last until the end of time.

    These stories of conversion and change should provide great hope for us today. In spite of all our demons and fears and flaws and weaknesses, we, like Mary Magdalene and Peter, and all the other flawed disciples and followers, are also invited to enter the empty tomb, and to experience the resurrection…to begin a new side to our story.

    And although Christ’s resurrection is a historical event, it’s not just history…it is also a spiritual mystery.

    It’s a mystery in the sense that in the timelessness of eternity, what happened 2,000 years ago in our physical world, is just as assuredly happening now…at this present moment. In the timelessness of the spiritual world, if there is no time, the resurrection is now.

    It means that today we celebrate not what happened, but what is happening at this moment, and at every moment. He is not out there somewhere as a historical Jesus, He is in our hearts, in our very being, deep within us. This is the resurrection story. He is alive…He is alive in our hearts.

    And what is happening is God’s relentless desire to draw us to himself, through his son Jesus, in a deep and intimate way. To work within our hearts to conversion…to begin another side to our story.

    This Easter we celebrate with great joy that we are a people, called to conversion, gathered in faith, gifted in a spirit of holiness, and loved unconditionally, forever, to the end of time….warts and flaws and demons and all; and all of humanity included… he desires us all…and he desires all of us…all the time. Our proper response is simply to accept his invitation and to follow him…just like his early followers did.

    This is the other side of our story. This is the Easter story that changes everything, forever, for those who believe it and embrace it, and live it.

    May we all believe and embrace and accept Jesus’s calling to draw us to himself. This is our Easter joy... Easter joy to you all!

    Dn. John Cleveland 

  • March 27, 2018 7:23 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    If you have the same feeling as me, you are glad that winter has now “passed over,” that some of the earliest flowers will open, dawn occurs earlier each day, and we thank God for spring.” Pasch, April, and Easter all have their roots in this theme of spring when we celebrate the resurrection and life of the Son of God, Jesus the Christ. I can even make a case that Easter is appropriately on April Fool’s Day.

    Pasch is the word most traditionally used for Easter in memory of our Jewish roots through the Aramaic word pasha meaning “pass over,” thus celebrating Jesus as the new paschal lamb through which all of us can be reconciled and made whole as we come ever closer to being in full communion with God. The word Easter creeps in with its Old English and Germanic pagan roots (eastre) for a Goddess of the spring and (austron) for dawn respectively. Anglo-Saxon Christians adopted the name, and many of the practices for the Mass of Christ’s resurrection, thus fully transforming that which was pagan to the high point of the Christian liturgical year.

    Hopefully during this 50 day Easter season we can be more open (root meaning of the word April) to the reality of the resurrected Jesus as we once again sing Alleluia in “praise of Jehovah” for the grace given to us through the Son. In fleshing out the root meaning of the words we commonly use this time of year, it is far more important that each one of us not only wrap our heads around a resurrected Son of God, but also become the flesh and bone of Jesus’ presence in the world as the Body of Christ.

    So, if I have a vote for anything to be fools about this Easter, I vote that we be fools for Jesus.

    Dn Mick Humbert 

  • February 27, 2018 8:21 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    De Colores!

     This February our parish had the privilege of hosting two Cursillo weekends. As my pastor and I attended the men’s clausura, I was brought back to my own Cursillo experience two years ago as a seminarian. What an amazing thing to hear how men’s lives have been changed forever thanks to an encounter with Jesus Christ and His Church. As we know, that encounter is made real by the overwhelming outpouring of love that is shown to the retreatants. The love of Jesus Christ has the power to transform the world, if only we allow it to flow through our lives and actions.

     In one of the Gospel readings from daily Mass in Lent, Jesus describes the Last Judgment, when God will separate the sheep from the goats. The basis for each man’s verdict is summarized in five words: “YOU DID IT TO ME.” When we gave a drink to the thirsty, we did it to Him. When we failed to show love to our neighbor, we failed to do it to Him. Everything we do in life is counted as if done directly to God.

     I want to encourage all of you who volunteer your time and resources for the sake of Cursillo. Remember always that it is not merely for the sake of “paying it forward” that you do what you do. It is not merely to share the wonderful experience of fraternity and love that you received from your first Cursillo with a new generation of men and women. When you make sacrifices to serve retreatants on their first Cursillo, you are doing it for love of Jesus. That is the primary reason why Cursillo is so effective, and why your sacrifices have an eternal impact.

     As Cursillo continues to touch lives, may Jesus remain at its center, and may all our efforts be devoted to bringing souls into friendship with Him through an active sacramental life in the Catholic Church.

     May God continue to bless you! And in all that you do, remember Jesus’ words: You did it to me.

    -Fr Paul Haverstock

    Parochial vicar

    Parish of Saints Joachim and Anne 

  • January 24, 2018 8:25 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    After any cold and harsh winter of our soul, when darkness dominates over the light, a “springtime” or “longer daylight” as most root meanings of the word Lent point, is indeed welcome. Lent beckons each of us on a 40 day journey, as a reminder of the 40 year journey in the desert by the people of Israel, to spend time discerning, defining, and refining what we are called to become, what comes after any thawing of the soul. Along the way, we are to face that we are the tempted and the tempter, calling us back to Jesus’ 40 day reckoning with the temptation laid before him. Israel became a faith filled nation on their journey only after facing the worst within themselves. Jesus only became the light after facing the darkness available to himself. Our soul cannot thaw until we allow warmth and light to shine on the most harsh and frozen elements of our soul.

    Our baptism and repentance lie at the center of Lent. In Hebrew Scripture references, this penitence has to do with our sin and sorrow, while the Christian scriptures increasingly add the word “metanoia,” the element of transformational change of mind, attitude, and life direction. It is a turning away from something to something else; a thawing of the soul so that it can bring forth life. Therefore, during Lent, we are called to renew our baptismal vow, to turn away from that which lessens us toward that which gives life, as the Israelites and Jesus did in their sojourning into the desert as well.

    Quite a juxtaposition this year, with Ash Wednesday and Valentine’s Day falling on the same day. I leave it up to each of you to comment on the rewards or challenges of that coincidence. The 40 days of Lent, by most accounts, begins with Ash Wednesday and ends at Holy Thursday. Some savvy readers know, or by counting on a calendar realize, that consecutively the time span is more than 40 days. The Sundays are not counted because the theme of Sunday is focused not on ourselves but on Jesus, not on our thawing souls but on the warmth and light of Jesus’ resurrection. May these special 40 days allow you to discern and reflect on your life as a means of turning toward a better version of yourself, the better self that is your call in Baptism; and along the way, especially on Sundays, turn and celebrate the triumph we all find in Jesus.

    Oh, by the way, this year Easter and April Fools Day fall on the same day too...

    Dn Mick Humbert 

  • December 28, 2017 5:05 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    “In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” 1 Thessalonians 5:18

    It truly seems right to thank God for all that occurs in our lives and the lives of those we love. But as in most things in life, we have the best intentions, but from time to time we fall short.

    As I reflect on the past year and a half this reading from Thessalonians has special significance for me and my family.

    Spots on lung, biopsy, partial lung removal, diagnosis, Ewing’s Sarcoma, chemo therapy and all that goes with that.

    Cancer, the dreaded disease, has invaded my body. Feelings of anger, uncertainty, helplessness, dread, worry, fear, and of course, “why me”? Fear of death, oh yeah! Fear of what will happen to my loved ones, absolutely.

    It’s a tumult of emotions, it feels like quicksand and it’s hard to get your footing.

    If only halfheartedly, I did pray and asked God to heal me. I don’t think it was a crisis of faith, but it did test it.

    To my surprise it didn’t take long for God to speak to me. Soon after my diagnosis I was walking with Susan in a nature area near our house. It was a sunny day and we had stopped for a rest. I asked Susan, “do you think I am going to die”? She didn’t miss a beat, and as I recall she looked at me like I had two heads, and said an emphatic NO. Well, she’s my wife, what else could she say? Soon after my sister Sharon told me that she had been praying for me and God told her that it would all end up good. Then my brother-in-law David, a retired pulmonologist, and my sister Jan came for a visit. He offered me good advice, “don’t fight the treatment, keep your faith.”

    I put my skepticism aside and chose to believe that God was speaking to me through these two lovely women and man in my life. From that point on it became easier to deal with what was coming up.

    My prayer to God was different. I still whined to Him but my whining was filled with hope.

    A year and one half after my diagnosis and chemo, and many bumps in the road, I still have hope that I will continue to heal.

    It has brought me closer to God than I thought was possible. At some point, I began to thank God for this life challenge because it brings me closer to Him and those whom I love.

    Most days I have no fear of death. I truly believe that if I live or die through this experience I come out a winner. There are bumps on that road too. At times my conviction waivers. Usually it comes about as family gathers. My fear of what will happen to Susan and the gang if I die gives me pause.

    When that happens a dear wise deacon friend’s wisdom brings me back to reality. He said, they are God’s children and he will take care of them. What a wonderful, comforting, piece of wisdom that is – thank you Deacon John.

    My last scan was cancer free. I suppose I will always dread the CT scan, human nature I guess.

    I no longer think “why me,” but rather “why not me.” Who am I that I should be so special that God would spare me from this disease?

    God has blessed me with many people who have prayed for me, continue to pray for me, send me cards, and offer me hope. My family has been loving, encouraging and supportive. It has truly made the difference. I am humbled and grateful.

    Praise God!

    Dn Rod Palmer

  • November 30, 2017 7:43 PM | Cursillo Communications (Administrator)

    Advent is a preparatory season, an adventure of sorts.

    Advent is a season observed in many Christian churches as a time of expectant waiting and preparation for the celebration of the Nativity of Jesus at Christmas. The word 'Advent' is from the Latin 'Adventus,' which means 'coming.'

    We are called to discern and to celebrate a threefold anticipation of God in our lives:

    • We prepare to celebrate the anniversary of the incarnate God of love coming into the world in Jesus.
    • We prepare ourselves, our souls, for becoming the indwelling of the Holy Spirit more and more.
    • And thereby we increasingly prepare ourselves to become worthy of our eternal home; the God of joy and love eagerly awaiting our return.

    Advent is the beginning of a new liturgical year (in the Western churches), and encompasses the span of time from the fourth Sunday before Christmas, until the Nativity of Our Lord is celebrated. The first Sunday of Advent is the Sunday nearest the feast of St. Andrew the Apostle (which is November 30th), and so it will always fall somewhere between November 27th at the earliest and December 3rd at the latest.

    While the earliest traditions around the Advent Season were mainly penitential, similar to that of Lent, today we prepare for the coming of our Lord’s anniversary historically, into our lives personally, and of our final destiny with God to come.

    During Liturgy, traditional purple vestments are worn, although deep blue/indigo has emerged in recent decades. Purple is the color of discernment and preparation, while indigo is the color of the winter sky at sunrise, and thereby a color signifying Jesus’ life, mission, and legacy rising into our lives historically, personally, and forever more.

    In Cursillo-speak, you may wish to contemplate the three-legged stool this Advent season. Feel Jesus coming into your life personally through piety. Ponder the coming anniversary of Jesus in history in your study. Finally, know that Jesus’ legacy will live on forever more through your actions on behalf of others. Indeed, this holy season can be an adventure.

    Dn Mick Humbert

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